AI Product
Behavior Design
Decision Systems

bbconmigo

Designing AI behavior for high-uncertainty parenting decisions.

Role

Senior AI Product Designer

Year

2025

Product

B2C

Platform

Progressive Web App · iOS & Android (on process)

Product Snapshot

This case study documents a pivot from 'give parents information' to 'help parents decide what to do right now', and the AI behavior framework built to make that decision support trustworthy. In its first month, bbconmigo reached 238 active users, 60% next-day retention, and a functioning conversion funnel. The hardest problem wasn't the interface. It was designing when the system should reassure, when it should stay uncertain out loud, and when it should tell a scared parent to see a doctor instead of trusting the app.

Context

Parents of babies 0-12 months in Mexico

High anxiety, low bandwidth, and fragmented guidance.

Problem

Interpretation under pressure

Parents had information. They lacked confidence about what applied.

Solution

AI-native relationship and decision support

Guidance that adapts across reassurance, uncertainty, and escalation.

Role

Senior AI Product Designer

Product strategy, AI behavior, conversation architecture, trust design.

Team

Co-founder & founder (sign-off) · Fullstack developer (implementation) · Pediatric professionals (clinical validation)

Vision sign-off, implementation, and clinical validation responsibilities.

Outcome

238 active users in month one

60% next-day retention during the 15-day freemium trial.

Scope

Behavior system

Research, decision logic, fallback, handoff, evaluation, and funnel decisions.

I defined the AI behavior framework (the three response states, the seven conversational components, the escalation logic) and drove product decisions from research evidence. Pediatric professionals validated my escalation classification against clinical criteria. A fullstack developer implemented the behavior in RAG and deterministic logic. Final product direction was signed off by the founder and co-founder. User Interface, User Experience and Design System was also designed by me.

Context

bbconmigo began as a pediatric information product for parents of babies 0-12 months in Mexico. The initial hypothesis was simple: if parents had reliable answers in one place, they would feel more prepared.

Research changed the direction. Parents already had information sources. The product needed to help them interpret uncertainty, understand what mattered, and decide what to do next without replacing their judgment. The product is live and early-stage, built with a co-founder, a fullstack developer, and pediatric professionals.

The Real Problem

The problem was not access to information. It was the gap between information and action when a parent was tired, worried, and responsible for deciding alone.

Field research with 180 parents across Mexico City, Guadalajara, and Monterrey showed five recurring clusters: anxiety, lack of immediate guidance, fear of emergencies, emotional support needs, and confidence in decision-making.

The interview sample focused on first-time parents between 20 and 40 years old, with a participant mix of 60% women and 40% men. The guide used eight questions to understand anxiety triggers, information-seeking behavior, AI familiarity, emergency consultation costs, and subscription willingness.

Interview question
Are you first-time parents?
What creates the most fear when you see your baby restless or crying?
When you have doubts, how do you resolve them?
Do you ask family, friends, Facebook groups, or Google for information that can help in the moment?
At what time does seeing your baby restless or crying create the most anxiety?
Have you used artificial intelligence to try to resolve doubts?
How much do you pay for an emergency pediatric consultation?
How much would you be willing to pay for a subscription?

I already knew I could search Google. But when I'm scared at 3 a.m. and my baby won't stop crying, I don't need more articles. I need someone to tell me if this is normal.

EvidenceWhat it meantProduct decision
Parents already had Google, pediatric contacts, family advice, and social groups.More content would not solve the product problem.Shift from information access to decision support.
Anxiety peaked when pediatricians were least available.The product had to support low-confidence moments.Design behavior states for reassurance, uncertainty, and escalation.
Parents struggled to describe observations clearly.Open-ended input increased cognitive load.Use guided choices and progressive context narrowing.
Parents wanted confidence without losing agency.The system could not sound authoritarian.Use transparent language and parent-controlled next actions.
Traditional productbbconmigo model
Parent searches and compares sources.Parent describes the concern in their own words.
Parent interprets general information alone.System gathers only the context that changes guidance.
Confidence depends on the parent's ability to judge sources.Response frames certainty, uncertainty, and next action.
The product optimizes for answers.The product optimizes for decision confidence.

North Star

The product vision became a system that helps parents move from concern to a clearer next decision. bbconmigo should not answer every question the same way. It should understand the parent state, identify what context matters, communicate limits clearly, and preserve human judgment.

Research

Only the insights that changed product direction carried forward into the design. The strongest pattern was not a request for more medical content. It was a need for structured interpretation during emotionally loaded moments.

InsightEvidenceDecision
Parents did not trust themselves to interpret symptoms under stress.Interview language centered on fear, normality, and whether to act.Design responses around confidence, limits, and next action.
Input quality drops when anxiety rises.Parents described concerns vaguely or incompletely.Add fallback behavior through close-match options and binary choices.
Trust forms before registration.7 out of 10 users used the product before creating an account.Keep first-use value before registration.
Parents needed support without dependency.The quote and research clusters showed a need for guidance, not replacement.Preserve agency in the response structure.

Behavior Framework

AI behavior mattered more than UI polish because the product value lived inside the response posture. The same interface could either calm the parent, create false confidence, or delay action depending on how the system behaved.

Reassurance

Situation appears within normal range

Validate the concern, explain the likely interpretation, and give a clear next action without adding unnecessary doubt.

Use when confidence reduces unnecessary anxiety.

Uncertainty

Context is incomplete or ambiguous

Name what is unclear, ask for the minimum useful context, and explain what signs would change guidance.

Use when false confidence is the larger risk.

Escalation

Potential warning sign

Stop reassurance, become direct and calm, and prepare the parent for professional care or urgent action.

Use when action matters more than explanation.

Three behavior states created consistency without forcing every response into the same shape.
Behavior ruleWhy it existed
Avoid sounding authoritative when certainty is limited.The product had to prevent false confidence.
Avoid sounding uncertain without explaining why.Uncertainty needed to become useful, not evasive.
Maintain warmth while preserving transparency.The product had to reduce anxiety without hiding limits.
Use conversational empathy without pretending to be human.Parents know they are interacting with AI. The goal was trustworthy behavior, not deception.

Certainty

What the system can infer

Communicate confidence only when the available context supports it.

No false precision.

Transparency

What remains unclear

Name missing context and observable signals that would change the guidance.

Uncertainty becomes actionable.

Agency

What the parent can do next

End with a next action while preserving the parent's role as decision maker.

Guidance supports judgment.

Trust is produced by the relationship between certainty, transparency, and agency.

Evaluation signals

Parent inputExpected behaviorFailure riskEvaluation signal
My baby has been crying for two hours.Clarify context before reassurance.Generic reassurance too early.Parent reaches a clear next action without needing to explain everything in open text.
My baby has fever and looks very sleepy.Escalation.Normalizing a potentially urgent situation.Response avoids diagnosis and prioritizes immediate action.
I don't know if this is normal.Validation + uncertainty.Pretending certainty with weak context.Parent understands what information matters next.
He has not eaten much today.Clarification.Too many questions increase stress.Parent can continue with low cognitive effort.

System Architecture

The architecture was conceptual before it was technical: input becomes context signals, context changes safety level, safety level selects behavior, and behavior shapes the response and next action.

Input

Parent concern

Signals

Context that changes guidance

Safety

Guidance, observation, or care

Behavior

Reassurance, uncertainty, escalation

Output

Response + next action

The product logic was designed to prevent the AI from answering only the literal wording.

Decision boundaries

The system should not move directly from concern to reassurance when context is weak. It first determines whether it has enough signal to guide, whether it needs to clarify, or whether the situation should move toward professional care.

Not enough context

Parent concern

Clarify with structured choices

Low risk

Enough context

Reassurance + next action

Uncertain

Partial signal

Explain uncertainty + follow-up

Warning sign

Safety signal

Escalation / professional care

The AI supports the parent's next decision. It does not replace the parent, the pediatrician, or emergency care.

Level 1

General guidance

Frequently asked concerns, education, reassurance, and clear explanation when the situation appears common or low risk.

Goal: reduce anxiety without overexplaining.

Level 2

Observation

Clarification, monitoring, follow-up, and guidance on what to observe as the situation evolves.

Goal: make uncertainty actionable.

Level 3

Professional care

Pediatrician, emergency, emotional support, preparation before arrival, and what to observe during transition.

Goal: reduce panic while supporting action.

A conceptual safety framework guided behavior without exposing medical protocols.

I designed the three-tier escalation classification based on the risk patterns surfaced in research. Pediatric professionals reviewed and validated the classification against clinical criteria before launch.

TriggerSystem behaviorParent-facing outputHuman / professional role
Potential warning signStop reassurance and escalate.Clear next action and urgency framing.Pediatric or emergency care.
Ambiguous but persistent concernAsk only minimum clarifying context.Guided choices, not open-ended burden.Professional care if uncertainty remains.
Parent needs interpretation, not diagnosisExplain what is known and unknown.Emotional validation + next step.Pediatrician remains final authority.

The diagram below shows how the same parent input: ''My baby has been crying for 2 hours'', can produce different system responses depending on context and signals available at that moment.

Decision Framework

The strongest decisions balanced trust formation, cognitive load, safety, and conversion timing. No single metric could optimize the product alone.

Speed vs. confidence

Fast access mattered, but speed without emotional confidence would create more uncertainty.

Resolved through full first-use value before registration.

Information vs. load

More detail can help in calm moments and overwhelm in stressful ones.

Resolved through progressive context narrowing.

Reassurance vs. safety

The system needed to calm users without hiding situations that required action.

Resolved through distinct safety and behavior levels.

The product repeatedly balanced competing values rather than optimizing one metric in isolation.

Each decision below was driven by evidence I surfaced from research and usage data. The founder and co-founder held final sign-off on direction.

Chosen

Free and full experience before registration

Rejected

Registration before product access

Rationale

Trust had to be experienced, not explained.

Tradeoff

Lower immediate account capture, but stronger intent among users who registered after receiving value.

Implication

Registration moved after demonstrated usefulness.

Chosen

Limited freemium session

Rejected

Unlimited free access or a single-question trial

Rationale

The product needed enough interaction to prove usefulness without becoming unlimited usage.

Tradeoff

Some users leave at the limit. Retained users arrive with clearer intent.

Implication

The funnel became a trust sequence instead of an access gate.

Chosen

No-card trial after registration

Rejected

Immediate paywall after sign-up

Rationale

Health-adjacent products require repeated usefulness before commitment.

Tradeoff

Monetization is delayed, but the evaluation period fits the trust curve.

Implication

The trial supported repeated decision moments.

Chosen

Voice output as a core delivery mode

Rejected

Text-only guidance

Rationale

Parents often needed guidance while physically managing the baby.

Tradeoff

Adds content formatting complexity, but fits the real use context.

Implication

Delivery mode became part of trust, accessibility, and emotional support.

Chosen

Progressive context narrowing with binary selection as fallback input

Rejected

Open-ended chat as primary input method

Rationale

Under stress, open-ended text input becomes a barrier. Structured entry points give the system better context while asking less from the parent.

Tradeoff

Guided flows reduce expressive freedom, but lower effort and produce more usable context.

Implication

The interface became a context-gathering tool, not only a message composer.

SituationRiskDesigned behaviorBoundary
Parent gives vague inputSystem answers too generallyClarify through structured optionsDo not force open-ended explanation
Parent reports possible warning signFalse reassuranceEscalate and frame urgencyDo not normalize risk
Parent is anxious but context is low-riskOver-escalation increases panicValidate, reassure, give next actionDo not dramatize without signal
Parent gives contradictory contextSystem follows the wrong interpretationAcknowledge uncertainty and ask for the minimum signalDo not pretend certainty
Parent expects diagnosisAI oversteps medical roleExplain limits and guide toward professional care when neededDo not diagnose or replace pediatricians

Interaction Design

Interaction design was organized around product capabilities, not screens. Each interface pattern existed to reduce effort, capture context, or preserve decision agency.

CapabilityWhy it existsWhat changed
Guided entryParents often cannot describe a concern clearly under stress.The interface offered structured choices before demanding open text.
Voice messagesParents may be holding the baby or unable to read comfortably.Guidance became usable in low-attention moments.
One-handed useThe product is used while physically managing a baby.Flows prioritized binary selections and low-effort progression.
Fallback choicesAmbiguous input created abandonment.The system offered close matches so the parent could select context.

Evolution

Before

Input

Loading state

Response container

Follow-up prompt

After

Validation

Reassurance

Uncertainty

Escalation

Fallback

Next action

The design system evolved from visual consistency toward behavior consistency.

The product moved from reusable UI components to reusable behavior components. That shift made behavior design part of the product system, not an afterthought attached to the conversation layer.

Ambiguous input iteration

A recurring abandonment pattern appeared when parents could not describe what they were observing. Vague input led to weak interpretation, weak interpretation led to generic responses, and generic responses ended the session.

The redesign changed the behavior. When the system cannot interpret a concern with enough clarity, it presents close-match options. The parent selects the closest situation, and the system continues with enough context to guide. Abandonment from interpretation failure stopped being a recurring pattern.

Behavior conversation logic

Instead of writing individual responses, the conversation assembled from seven reusable components: validation, reassurance, uncertainty, escalation, fallback, follow-up, and handoff.

ComponentUse whenDo not use when
ValidationThe parent expresses concern or uncertaintyA warning sign requires immediate escalation
ReassuranceContext supports a low-risk interpretationContext is incomplete or potentially urgent
UncertaintyThe system lacks enough signalImmediate escalation is safer than more questioning
EscalationWarning signs or safety thresholds appearThe situation is clearly low-risk and reassurance is enough
FallbackOpen input fails or is too cognitively demandingThe parent already provided enough context
Follow-upMonitoring over time is neededThe next action should be immediate professional care
HandoffThe system reaches its boundaryThe system can responsibly clarify or guide

I designed the AI behavior: three response states, seven reusable conversational components, and explicit rules for what the system should never do. A fullstack developer translated that behavior into RAG retrieval and deterministic logic.

Impact

238
Active users
First month after launch
60%
Next-day retention during trial
6 out of 10 users who start the 15-day freemium trial return the next day
7/10
Use before registration
Trust was built before asking for commitment
4/10
Unregistered users register
Registration intent emerged after product use
1/10
Registered users reach paywall
Trust -> use -> registration -> conversion sequence
1,200+
Questions asked
Within the registered cohort in the first 30 days

These are early-stage signals, not scale claims. The useful question was what each metric changed in the product, not whether the product had already proven long-term growth.

MetricMeaningDecision generated
7/10 users used the product before registrationTrust had to be earned before account creation.Keep full first-use value before registration.
4/10 unregistered users registeredIntent appeared after product use, not before onboarding.Move registration after value delivery.
1/10 registered users reached paywallThe trust + use + registration sequence still created a measurable monetization path.Keep paywall after relationship formation.
60% next-day retention during trialParents returned when guidance felt useful beyond first use.Prioritize engagement quality over acquisition volume.
1,200+ questions askedParents used the system repeatedly for real uncertainty.Keep improving behavior consistency and fallback logic.

Reflection

The first lesson was that an AI product is not defined by the presence of a model. It is defined by how the system behaves when the user is uncertain and the answer has consequences.

The second lesson was that trust is easier to claim than to design. In this product, trust came from boundaries, transparency, escalation logic, and the ability to ask for less while understanding more.

The third lesson was that behavior scales better than individual responses. A response solves one moment. A behavior pattern can support many situations without becoming rigid.

Hand-off

How this got handed to engineering a master Figma file with documented user flows, micro-interaction notes, system behavior, and edge cases, plus a general view of the design system behind it.

What I'd Validate Next

  • Repeated decision moments convert into paid trust, not only registration?
  • An escalation logic reduces false reassurance without increasing unnecessary panic?
  • Parents understand the difference between guidance, monitoring, and professional care?
  • Response quality should be measured through perceived clarity, confidence, and next-action completion?
  • How to keep iterating the generative AI knowledge base through specialty-specific pediatric audits, stress tests against pediatricians and specialty hospitals, and continuous updates that help the LLM classify each consultation by level and escalate appropriately?

The next stage is not adding more AI or build a complex design system. It is validating whether the system can remain useful, safe, and trusted as more parents, concerns, and edge cases enter the product.

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